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I. EUPHORIC STAGE
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Excitement - "Yea! We've started!"
Adventure - "It will be fun camping out in our house."
Denial - "This won't disrupt our lives too much. We can do without the kitchen/laundry room/bedroom/bathroom for a period of time." |
II. PRODUCTIVE STAGE
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Energetic - "Look what's been done so far! We're moving right along."
Coping - "I can handle this mud, mess and disorder."
Hospitality - "Can I get you something to drink?" |
III. YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING STAGE
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Decisions, Decisions, Decisions - "Why does this have to be so complicated?"
Ordering - "It takes how many weeks to get this in?"
Disparity - "Why does my taste not match my pocketbook (or my allowances)?" |
IV. THERAPY STAGE
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Marriage - "What do you mean you like this better?"
Child - "How did families ever live in one room homes?"
Personal - "I think I'm going crazy!" |
V. QUESTIONING STAGE
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Future - "Will this ever be over?"
Order - "Will my house/yard ever be presentable again?" Where is all this dust coming from?"
Disbelief - "What were we thinking?" |
VI. THE WOW STAGE
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Infatuation - "Oh, I love the…."
Newness - "What fun to try this out."
Pride - "It looks great!" "We've done it!" |
VII. THANKFUL STAGE
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For a job well done - "I appreciate the attention given to details."
For relationships made - "They've seen me at my best and my worse."
For normalcy - "And now to get back to life as it was before construction." | |